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WHY FORGIVENESS ISNT ABOUT THEM(THE LAW OF CAUSE & EFFECT)

EYITEMI SAMUEL

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You need to forgive him."

And immediately, the rage rises. Because WHY should you forgive him? He doesn't deserve it. He hurt you. He betrayed you. He walked away like you meant nothing.

So no. You're NOT forgiving him.

You're holding onto that anger. That resentment. That bitterness. Because he deserves to be punished.

But here's what I need you to understand: Unforgiveness isn't punishing him. It's punishing YOU.

In this episode, I'm breaking down The Law of Cause and Effect and showing you why holding onto resentment is keeping YOU trapped—not him.

Here's what you'll learn:

  • Why unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting him to die
  • How The Law of Cause and Effect works (what you put out comes back to you)
  • What forgiveness IS and what it IS NOT (it's not condoning, forgetting, or letting him back in)
  • The 7-step forgiveness process that actually works
  • How to forgive without betraying yourself
  • Why forgiveness is the ultimate power move
  • How forgiving my ex changed my ENTIRE life

The uncomfortable truth: As long as you're holding onto unforgiveness, you're energetically tied to him. He's the first thing you think about in the morning and the last thing at night. You're giving him free rent in your head and heart.

And meanwhile? He's probably not even thinking about you.

Forgiveness has NOTHING to do with him. It's about YOU. It's about cutting the energetic cord so you can finally be FREE.

I held onto rage for YEARS after my divorce. It destroyed my health, my energy, my joy. When I finally forgave? Everything changed. I had energy for MY life. MY healing. MY future.

This isn't about being weak. This is about taking your POWER back.

Download the free Forgiveness Freedom Practice workbook

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